How to Make Friends and Influence People

Think this is going to be my last post of the night coz I can feel tiredness setting in, my eye-lids are getting heavy so before i get some Zs, I'll leave you with something to think about.

I heard in a commercial "self-confidence is very sexy, don't you think?" Of course! When you've met someone and felt drawn to what you might call their magnetism, haven't they always projected a sense of self-confidence? They were magnetic because of a strong self image and were anything but passive. Such magnetism is the very thing that makes some, if not most, people popular. They have lots of friends because their confidence is attractive, even sexy, and draws people to them. One way is to be warm and open and look them in the eyes!

What I am getting at is, many people do the opposite. Shit! They seem cold and their eyes look away. Maybe its just me and I am boring... or else they lack self esteem.